RE: How woman suffer Christ crucified?
I do not understand your question. How do men allow Jesus to become flesh in them? I do not understand this question either.
Jesus granted the Living Waters of Faith to the Apostle to Gentiles of Samaria, the great Samaritan woman. Did Jesus "become flesh in her?"
Jesus baptised the Samaritian Woman with the spirit, with the Living Waters of Faith, and taught her Theology and the Gospel. Jesus made her an Icon of Christ and his representative, his priest, his preacher, and she became the Christ to Samaria.
So women certainly are allowed to have Jesus "become flesh and spirit in them".
Like the above post, there is no gender discrimination from Jesus, God or the Holy Spirit. No man or woman, all are One in Christ. No gender exclusivity.
Jesus delighted in woman doing all good works and all roles in the church. Indeed. it is granted to women alone what bishops now do: the anointing with holy oil. Jesus praises women for learning theology and from him directly!, women preaching, women being missionaries just like the men, women anointing his head and feet, Jesus becomes flesh in women and in men. No gender differentiation or exclusivity comes from Jesus.